How to Find what you Lost in Motherhood
- mikacreates
- Oct 1, 2024
- 1 min read
Updated: Nov 19, 2024
Is Losing yourself in Motherhood real?

Alright, here is my truth,
Once I realized what I "signed" up for in being a mom and wife I wanted OUT but let me tell you why....
I was fully consumed in kids, house, work, and husband. It was this and only this.
Friends... no time.. can't make it
Workout.. no time.. next Monday
Get dressed... no time.. sweats n tee
Read/ Study... no time.. once a week in church
Wellness appoints... as long as the kids go
Let's not forget the many societal expectations and pressures put on mothers to prioritize their children over themselves, leaving me to feel like if I did something for myself, then I'm selfish.
After a while I didn't know me. I was all of everything else. I was drained, frustrated, empty and wanted OUT! My cup was EMPTY!
It led me to a way out ....which was doing it all the way it is supposed to be done. And you can too... here's how
Hey there, busy mama! I'm Mika, Mom's support advocate and coach, better known as The Calm Balance Mom. I support Moms to simplify mom life. Together, we claim calm, create balance, and discover peace. If you are a busy mama looking to create a peaceful household environment, allow me to pour into you so that you can confidently and effectively pour into your children.

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